T-Styled Me Answered: How to stop wearing the same thing over and over again …

Kim Asked:

Hi Tien! Love your blog! I need some help – I usually wear one simple outfit (blazer, trousers, sweater or A&F/RL shirt) and it can look really dowdy, old and boring. I have no idea how to accessorise or make my outfits look different or exciting! Please help!

T-Styled Me Answered:

Thanks for your question Kim! There’s nothing wrong with throwing on a safe outfit that works but if you find yourself reaching for that same outfit each time, you’ll naturally feel uninspired and it’s a sign to start trying new looks! If you feel most comfortable in a blazer and slacks, I’d suggest making this more exciting by mixing up different textures and colours as a start. Here are small changes I would make to freshen up your described outfit.

1. Alternate the RL shirt / A&F t-shirt with …

  • Silk shirts/blouses ( try striped, patterned, neutral and bright colours).
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  • Neutral coloured t-shirts (black, white, grey, blue)
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  • An on-trend dressy top
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  / I love a preppy RL crested shirt and a casual A&F tee but if you swap these for a fine silk or polyester shirt like Miranda Kerr’s above, you’ll instantly soften the look.

2. Replace / alternate your trousers with …

  • Coloured or patterned denim (Refer to my previous post)
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  • Jeggings / Leggings
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  • A skirt with opaque stockings
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Zara Denim: Instore at the moment … I’ve very tempted!

3. Swap your blazer once in a while for …

  • A cropped jacket / Textured Blazer
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  • A leather jacket (Check out my previous styling post)
  • Chunky knits (plentiful in Zara)

 / A perfect example of how colour and accessories brighten up your outfit instantly

4. Ditch your sneakers for …

  • Colourful flats / brogues
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  • Ankle boots
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  • Heels
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/ An alternative way to wearing ankle instead of always tucking them in

5. Accessorise, accessorise, accessorise ! (This is most fun part!)

  • Add a bright patterned scarf
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  • Find some costume jewellery that’s larger than life
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  • Arm Candy: Play with different stones and textures
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: Try several pieces of jewellery that have a common colour theme

In my opinion, the accessories and shoes will make the most difference to your outfit so concentrate on taking some time to look through these at the stores. If you ever need a personal styling consultation and you’re in London – let me know and I can show you how!

Love, Tien xo